Networking with an attorney can be tricky. While many lawyers are great to network with, my most recent experience with one was not. It made me wonder, how do you deal with bullies in the workplace?
Great article! For 33 years I’ve been a member of BNI and a Director. I have run into a lot of bullies. I would bet that same person is bullying the members of her BNI Chapter and because she’s a lawyer, they are afraid to get rid of her or take any action because they fear becoming the victim. Her being a member of your organization while she was a member of BNI is a direct violation of BNI policies. But clearly the rules don’t apply to her, which is the case with most bullies. I never respond to them in anger I wait 48 hours before I send a response., use few words in your responses, and only respond with facts . For every 1 bully you have a dozens of fans who support you!!!
Thanks Mike for this Article on Bullying - I believe it took courage and am grateful you shared your personal story. Having gone through similar experiences - I hope we can find more ways to double down on the positive. (And thanks for the tips on avoiding some of the negative).
Great article! For 33 years I’ve been a member of BNI and a Director. I have run into a lot of bullies. I would bet that same person is bullying the members of her BNI Chapter and because she’s a lawyer, they are afraid to get rid of her or take any action because they fear becoming the victim. Her being a member of your organization while she was a member of BNI is a direct violation of BNI policies. But clearly the rules don’t apply to her, which is the case with most bullies. I never respond to them in anger I wait 48 hours before I send a response., use few words in your responses, and only respond with facts . For every 1 bully you have a dozens of fans who support you!!!
Thank you for sharing your insights and encouraging words, Hazel. I agree with you 100%!!!
Thanks Mike for this Article on Bullying - I believe it took courage and am grateful you shared your personal story. Having gone through similar experiences - I hope we can find more ways to double down on the positive. (And thanks for the tips on avoiding some of the negative).
Thank you, Brian. I appreciate your support and sharing your thoughts!